Ern I think this is a great thing to discuss. I have found others saying this same thing and I do think it limits RP at times. I joined SS by accident and it quickly became a place for me to hide from RL and enjoy the fun. In that fun I have pushed my charries in every possible thing that I can to be involved. I love being super active and involved, so to me pushing them into things such as plots even if they wouldn't be comfortable or it doesn't go with them, because let's face it in real life sometimes we can't predict our own paths so why should we predict theirs. Getting out side your comfort zone can be the best way to meet new people and find out something about your charrie you didn't know.