Wow, I've just landed in HP heaven! I'm so glad that there are other people that think about this sort of stuff
I think it's a combi of Bella's upbringing and her love for voldemort. I think she turned to Voldemort because of the way her parents raised her. He was a hansome young man with the same views of the world she and her family had. I think she went whacky because she love voldemort so much and would do anything to get his attention and affection. She crossed her own boundries and got madder and madder because however far she went, it was never good enough. And I suppose so many years in Askaban where the dementors probably reminded her of how she faild to get Voldemorts love didn't help