YAY! First to post!
Well, in book 5 it says James and Sirius used the mirror to communicate when they were in different detentions. I guess its use might also have extended to the days when Voldemort was powerful and both of them were in the Order... that would have been pretty useful. What I am curious about is whether such two-way mirrors are common in the wizarding world or whether this, like the Invisibility Cloak, was another of James' rare possessions (where did he get them all??) We don't even know whether the pair belonged to James or Sirius... I wonder why JKR doesn't want to answer our questions about it? Maybe it's a really
crucial part of book 7... *dies in anticipation*
About Harry not using the mirror... well, I really believe Sirius would be alive if he had used it. Though since Harry is noble to a fault, it might have been kinda out of character to make him use it after he'd promised himself not to and had even forgotten about the mirror altogether. I mean,
I'd forgotten that Sirius had given him that package until it reappeared at the end, so you could hardly expect poor Harry to remember it while stressing about his vision of Sirius in the DoM. I see Harry's nobility - or, as Hermione puts it, his "saving people thing" as a tragic flaw which causes him to indirectly hurt people he's trying to help. And without that flaw, he wouldn't be the Harry we know. So I guess Sirius had to die... *rushes off to bribe Bloomsbury to change the book anyway

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