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| | Order of the Phoenix Harry's 5th year at Hogwarts - will you join? |
02-18-2010, 02:11 AM
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| | Faerie
Join Date: Jul 2008 Location: With the spork fairy
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Harry was a bit too insensitive, and Cho was too sensitive. They were both to blame, really, but I tend to be a little biased. I mostly see things through Harry's eyes rather than Cho's.
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04-05-2010, 09:32 PM
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| Formerly: Herminny  ECFC Activities Erumpent
Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: Florida
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Hogwarts RPG Name: Oichi Paulidine Second Year x3
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Well to me it's both there faults but more Cho's trying to persue a relationship before she was ready to move on and this is what happened because of it. Harry should not have been so insensitive about it but it was still mainly Cho's fault.
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04-06-2010, 08:40 PM
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| | Jarvey
Join Date: Mar 2010 Location: Godric's Hollow
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Hogwarts RPG Name: Koschei Heta First Year | "After all this time?" | "Always"
I'm not a huge fan of Cho, and though I felt incredibly sorry for the poor girl for losing her boyfriend and all, to me it felt like a type of rebound. She used Harry to try and heal herself, and that wasn't fair to him. She should have tried to not talk about Cedric, but I can understand why she would feel the need to confide in Harry about him. Still, it made Harry uncomfortable, and with the awkwardness, it was only fair for Harry to bring up Hermione. Harry was able to be understanding and try to comfort her (be a gentlemen basically) and she blows up at him about Hermione. That isn't respect. All the times Harry could have snapped at her about bringing up Cedric all the time, he didn't.
Harry was really interested in her, genuinely liked her, and he didn't need the constant reminder about what happened at the end of GOF. He was trying to heal from it himself, and bringing Cedric up constantly when Harry could do nothing to save him was not helping matters.
Which is why I'm glad they didn't work out in the end. I'll admit, the first-crush thing was cute, and it would have been cuter had Cho really, actually liked Harry, but I feel she was still too hung up over Ced to really get to know Harry and, in that retrospect, really like him.
Now, if they'd waited a while - time for Cho to heal and then get to like Harry, I could have seen them working, but it just didn't.
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12-03-2010, 05:30 AM
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| | Gnome
Join Date: Nov 2010 Location: Diagon Ally
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I thought it was funny but it must have been horrible to experience. Basically Cho only went out with Harry because she could never be with Cedric. So it was pretty harsh of her to go on that date with Harry.
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01-02-2011, 06:10 AM
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| | Puffskein
Join Date: Jan 2011 Location: United States
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Hogwarts RPG Name: Cait Callahan First Year | I can understand that Cho was still feeling horrible about Cedric dying, but to bring it up on her first date with Harry was just unfair. Not only is he her ex boyfriend, which would make it awkward enough, but her crying about his death would just remind him of the night Voldemort came back. That was probably one of his worst experiences, and he didn't know her well enough to feel okay talking about it with her. He could have been more sensitive though. All in all I think that after everything that happened Harry and Cho dating is a bad idea for many reasons. |
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04-24-2011, 04:52 PM
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| | Nogtail
Join Date: Apr 2011 Location: My world with Rupert
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Hogwarts RPG Name: Malachy Baxter First Year | Artfully Articulate
I just don't like her. And I agree, I think that it was quite selfish of her to want to talk about cedric. After all, he is dead and if she was still mourning over the death of hhim then why was she flirting and coming on to Harry ? It's also weird the way she almost jumped into a new relationship when he has only just died.
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05-11-2011, 07:48 PM
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| | Ghoul
Join Date: Mar 2011 Location: London, Diagon Alley
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Hogwarts RPG Name: Serena Margaret Fawcett First Year Ministry RPG Name:
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I just think they weren't right for each other. Harry has been through so much but Cho is still quite innocent in the world. Maybe if Cho was less sensitive, and Harry was more sensitive.
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07-25-2011, 04:14 PM
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| | Plimpy
Join Date: Jul 2011 Location: Tupert's Territory
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Hogwarts RPG Name: Plumeria Weasley First Year Ministry RPG Name:
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I felt sorry for Harry.
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08-30-2011, 10:41 AM
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| | Crup
Join Date: Aug 2011 Location: District 12
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Hogwarts RPG Name: Derrick Chatsworth Sixth Year Ministry RPG Name:
James Donelly Department of Mysteries | Lion at heart Sneaky Wizard
I feel sorry for Harry ,he had to endure the embarassmentin public.
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