Hey everyone!!! I have something cool to discuss.
"Jealousy"
Have you ever been jealous of someone? Did you ever do something wrong because of it? Do you regret it now??? Or have you never been jealous?
Please do tell the truth!!
Its bad to be jealous...
Once I became jealous of my previous school friend when i was in class 5*very small*& *didn't hav any idea for what to do, we usually got jealous of each other if one of us were getting attention*so I broke our friendship..But I didn't do any harm to her...now i am in 8th grade just finishing it..
We usually fight with our friends over a topic but then we realize that it was not that important to fight over..Its happens to almost everyone!!!!
Then I came home and started crying all over then my mum told me to buy a present for my friend and say sorry to her..My dad brought me a gift and then the next day I gave my friend that gift and we became friends again!!!!
Its short but sweet..Although I changed my skool we do still talk on phone!
Luv,
Sadia

yes jealuse of my best friend becasue is usualy seems like she has everything i dont

^^^Bri are you talking about Em?

Yeah, I have been quite a bit...when my friends have boyfriends or when my exes go out with other people. Sadia, your 14? Me too!

I've been jealous loads of times!

I must suffer from some jealousy disorder. i get jealous really really easily.
i get jealous when my friends have more money than me, or are able to buy something i want.
i'm jealous because they don't have as many boundaries as I do.
there's lots, lots more but I'm not going to post them all here because it'd be pathetic. and it would take up too much space.
xx

Yup i am 14 too!!! Its normal for people to get jealous...Sure its okay if someone's not telling about what they hav been jealous of cuz its all personal..
And when ur boyfriend is hanging out with other gals then its obvious that u'll get jealous.............and even ex-boyfriends too cuz you still love them even if they dumped you or u dumped them.
Everyone gets jealous of a friend cuz you dont like them getting more attention than u...
I know only a few ppl who never get jealous including my two elder sisters..One is always here at SS,,, Cassie you might know her ..Sarah*angeline_fire*...Sometimes she gets hurt but nopes..never jealous..and the other is almost the double of her..Never seen her being jealous of anyone...
We often do get jealous of siblings as well..Agree or not??? Rite..
xx Sadia xx

i get jealous easy. altho no one can tell because well they just can't. i don't show emotion to people, i never have, so if i started now i'd just be acting weird. but anyways, i think the worst case of jealousy i had only lasted for like a week. that was because i had this huge mega crush on this guy, and he started going out with my best friend. i was like, "OMFG!!!! I HATE YOU KNOW!!!!" whenever i saw them, altho i just smiled and acted as normal as i could. since then he's gone on to highschool and left me behind at the junior high. but i see him 3 days a week, and when i'm pretending not to notice, i can see him looking at me, and whenever he's not noticing, i think, i'm looking at him... it is a really funny thing really.

i get jealous of my friends because most of them, both their parents work so they are richer and have more stuff that they like and everything, but not me. i have lots of stuff, but i don't really like any of it. i just don't wanna get rid of it cuz that way i'd have nothing. so ya.

Ive been jealous alot of times too much to list

Oh yes. I get jealous ALOT. Especially of my sister. Because she's tall,pretty,very very very very smart, popular (with guys and girls),funny,and talented at drawing/playing 5 instruments. Example: Graduation was this Friday and the band (I play in the band. Alto saxophone ) had to play. So i had to be there. But afterwards me and my sister were going to go home together and hang out with the family and eat and stuff. Key word being TOGETHER here. Well she comes up to me in the band room and says how her and a bunch of people are going to go out to eat and drive around and stuff. Including someone who always picks on me. I know I know they are friends. Its just weird my sister is friends with someone who pokes fun at me all the time. Rather annoying actually. And well when we went outside and all the familys were saying hello to the Graduates and hugging and taking pictures. And there was my sister. With her HUGE group of friends. They were all talking and laughing. Running around. Ya know usual High Schooler things. And well I was just sitting there all by myself. Completely alone. Watching them. Hoping and praying one of them, just one, would come ask me to join them. But no one did. Not even my sister. And generally people like her more. They call her. Talk to her on the computer more. Etc. etc. But I don't know. I'm very glad to be me. Don't get me wrong. I wouldn't trade that for the world. But there are those moments when I just completely break down and have that sliver of a thought wishing I was her. But then its gone as quickly as it came. I just wish I could be firmly self actualized so I wouldn't get these feelings any more. Thats my goal for this summer. Hopefully it will work

*Mione

Ps. Just as a side note: it felt so good to get that all out!

Yeah, i normally get jealous when my exes go out with someone new, i know i shouldn't, but all these feelings come up again and i'm just like ARRRGH!

I do know her RGFC, you gotta love it

Yeah, but I NEVER want to be my brother because I dont want to see me from the outside....blech....but yaa...
speaking of Sarah, I need to go check on her FF.
This is really good thread Sadia!

I can jealous sometimes,mostly of the people who get live out my dreams. Like I've always been into acting and seeing those people who get to do that makes me jealous. But I don't hate them or anything, I just feel bad tha I can't do what they can.
I also envy people who are more confident then me, I can be really shy and it's hard me to speak my mind sometimes.

I usto be jealous of my cousin when i was little and childish. She was apart of a rich family, she still is... she gets what ever she wants still to this day. My mom has worked a lot for the past eight years to just scrap by and still give me and my brother a little extra once in awhile, but i usto be jealous of her a lot. Getting cd's a guitar a computer and a cell phone when she was ten I was thirteen. She's now thriteen and still acts like a little brat, And im now 16 and not jealous. I have something better then her and it hard that it took me a few a years ro realise that I have my mom who loves me and is my best friend in the whole world, while her parents buy her anyhting to just please her. I believe I'm the lucky one.

I was jelous of my friend, Mandy. She is a very loud person. She get INSANELY annoying at times. Well, I had another friend Leslee. Mandy wanted to spend more time with me, either that or hurt me, and became friends with Leslee. Leslee didnt really like Mandy, but she's nice to her (Mandy is a very sensitive person) . After she got to know Mandy, she hung out with her more than me. I was insanely jelous! I took back my friendship necklace and I said some horrible things to her. I regretted it- So I took it all back because I wanted to be friends with Leslee, and I knew that what I did was the wrong thing to do.

Now we arent that good of friends, actually she hates me. Kinda like a huge brake up between a guy and a girl that have been together for YEARS
I regrett giving her the neckalce back now!! That was my fave necklace, It was my first goddess (my mom gives us goddess necklaces for certain b-days and holidays) Now I can never get it back and it meant so much to me.

I have been jealous before. Of people but then I realize that my life and my friends are soooo much better and that they can go....well you can imagine! Yeah, I been jealous. Not bad because they would mess up and make me feel better so..

Yes I have been jealous, a couple of times. Like this year I met this one guy this year and I like him alot, but then after this one girl found out I liked him she went after him I was so mad...I wanted to hit her. Jealousy is normal, it's a normal human emotion. We can't help it, we can try to control it. I never did anything about it, but I don't regret being jealous...I just remind myself that I can't help being jealous

I think everyone feels jealousy at some point in their life. I know when my baby sister was born I was very jealous, because I felt like she was getting all of the attention. But I got over it and my sister is 18 now and we are the best of friends. Jealousy is an emotion that everyone feels, and its just part of being human. Even though its a bad thing and we should try to cast it away when we feel it creeping up on us, its kind of difficult to ignore.

I'm pretty happy with my circumstances in life, so I rarely get jealous. I think I've been jealous of my best friend maybe once in my life - but we have an awesome friendship and haven't even ever fought!

There was a time though, when I left for college and she was still in high school, that really was hard to get through. I was a state away and couldn't afford much in the way of phone bills and she was busy. She found another person to hang out with and suddenly it felt like I didn't even know her. Granted I could have called or written to her more, but when I thought she had a 'new best friend' I stopped caring so much. I was jealous of the 'other friend'.

By the way, it didn't take me too long to figure out that I was still the 'best friend forever'. Awesome!

I don't get jealous very easly, i guess that's a good thing. But when i do get jealous, its usualy because of boundries and freedom, i'm not alowd to do a lot of the things my friends do but it doesn't bother me too much. im more of a positive thinker, and if i ever get jealous, i just go back and look at all the things that i do have and how fortuante i am hhheeeyyyy, I'm 14 also! lol