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Originally posted by PSYchoPiXiE@Jun 26 2004, 12:25 AM
I've read OoTP and I still dont hate her. You have to understand what she's going through. I mean, hello!, her boyfriend suddenly died and she has no idea how it happened. Also, that fact that she was very confused during the 5th book. She obviously had feelings for Harry, but at the same time, she felt guilty because she might have felt that she was betraying Cedric, who is dead. And to add on to that guilt and confusion, Harry was the only one who saw Cedric die. Just imagine it, you start to fancy the guy who was basically the last one to interact with your dead boyfriend. Of course you would have all the emotions. And you've got to admit, Harry acted a bit tactless at times. He really needs more experience when it comes to girls. And yea, Cho did some things wrong too. They both need some growing up to do. I'm not saying that they should get back together, but they need to settle their unfinished business.
I agree with you. People are so dumb for hating Cho. I mean, it wasn't too smart of her to go out with someone so soon after Cedric dying. She really should have waited a year or two so she wouldn't have had to deal with that guilt. And you're right, it's as much of Harry's fault as it is hers... but it was his first gf, so I really can't blame either of them. Harry, you see, needs someone that he can relate his experiences to Voldy with... like Ginny! I'm sorry but I think they're perfect for each other. But if not her some other Gryffindor will be much more agreeable. Quote:
well i think that cho might be using harry to just get over her sadness for cedric..as she`s always talking about him..like during valentines day..aww..that wasn`t a good day for harry at all..all the couples were soo intimate while cho and he were soooo .....u know..!!.i think cho is using harry!!..
Using him... at first that comment sounded a bit odd, I thought 'using' was too strong of a word. But I suppose it's true, I don't think she really gives a crap about Harry, or if she did she certainly didn't seem to after their breif relationship; she just wanted him out of desperation and loneliness. But not that thats a reason to hate her, she's just too shaken from things to settle her affairs appropiately.